Thursday, September 3, 2009

I feel like a bad mom today

So currently Julianna is the "fussier" baby. Usually when she cries she needs to burp, spit up, or fart. I end up holding her and soothing her more and it often take an amount of time. If Jacey cries, she just need a little bit of love or maybe a back pat for a burp, or someone to put the paci back in her mouth. She usually does not take that long to calm down. Well while I am soothing Julianna today I look over and Jacey is sitting in her bouncy seat making eye contact, smiling, cooing, and flailing her arms and legs excitedly at our COUCH! Yes she is trying to interact with the couch, because I am working with Julianna. I felt horrible, I am sure this happens to everyone but I am pretty sure this happen on a regular basis here. It is good to know that Jacey will have a strong bond with our couch. I wish I could do everything for both of them at the same time... I have figured out how to do alot of things for both of them at the same time, but this thing is really bothering me for some reason....

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  1. I found your blog through Lacey's. I have twin boys that are almost 7. I just wanted to tell you it's ok that your baby girl bonds with the couch. There is really a lot to be said for self soothing/entertaining. You are doing the best you can and someday they'll thank you for that. Twins are hard. Keep up the good work. And try to enjoy this time....I really can't believe mine are almost 7!!!! (Oh and twins make babies #3 and 4 a breeze;0)

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